If you're reading this, chances are high that you've already spent some amount of time reading sex tips and tricks to use with your partner. Not to be corny, but: hi, you are your own best sex partner, which is why you landed here, on a list of ways to make your solo sex life the absolute best. Masturbation or masty time, if you will is a great way to unwind, treat yourself, learn more about your sexuality, and yes, improve your sex lifein general.
Masturbation can be totally daunting. I also get frustrated by how easily I can get thrown off course, or about how particular I am with my environment. Ultimately, though, I feel happy to have one reliable way to get myself off.
To those who are new to the world of female masturbation, fingering yourself refers to penetrating your vagina with — you guessed it — your fingers! The answer? There is a definitely a wrong way to finger yourself.
I first discovered the power of my pussy on the yellow bath rug in my parents' bathroom. Behind locked doors, I self-explored between ballet lessons, The Brady Bunchand bedtime. I was 6 years old.
Sure, exercise is a great way to relieve stress and improve your sleep. But so is enjoying a little one-on-one time with you and your body. Masturbation is a safe and natural way to feel good, discover what gets you hot, and release built-up sexual tension.
Feel free to check out the original post HEREbut the basic gist was that I spent most of my life unable to feel much sexual pleasure, for a variety of reasons. Childhood sexual trauma was one of those reasons, but the other is much more insidious and, unfortunately, common. Sex in our culture teaches girls and women that their pleasure is shameful or dirty, complicated and difficult, and frankly, completely unnecessary.
Verified by Psychology Today. Women's experiences with sexual pleasure and orgasm have been an area of ongoing interest for many years. In spite of many embattled advances, female sexuality remains mystified and downplayed in general.
Illustration by Brandon Bird. Kelly is wrong about many, many things, but on this one front, he was absolutely spot on: There is nothing wrong with a little bump and grind. Last week, in response to the question " Girls what's the strangest thing you've masturbated with? Perhaps surprisingly, pillows and stuffed animals were prominent features in many the Macgyvered-toy tales told.
Sometimes, masturbation is like scratching an itch—the desire is just there from the getgo. Other times, you have to create that itch. Even on days when you're not desperately turned on, making time for masturbation has lots of benefitsfrom helping you explore your sexuality to relieving stress and even improving your health.